It sounded like things could be pretty normal, except for the “ show me your papers” Rozie wondered if it was all part of some creeping conditioning, she thought it was creepy conditioning. Lock down, lock up, lock step, locked out….so many locks…how was this anything to do with freedom.
tension in the negative spaces
"taking a line for a walk" looking at life...it's not black and white... it's tension in the negative spaces.
Dear Reader
Tuesday 19 October 2021
Saturday 16 October 2021
What’s wrong?
That’s the thing, so many things make us afraid, and when it’s common to be part of “selfie” culture it’s easy for those two things to combine with devastating results. Makes it all the more important to practice love and compassion for self, for neighbours, for the big wide world….Where possible, step back from the drama… and lovingly and rationally question everything. “ perfect love casts out fear” Rozie wondered how much love she really had…as she found it so easy to be afraid.
Monday 11 October 2021
When the going gets tough….
Rozie wondered about if the going gets tough, where the tough get going too…
And is it about being tough anyway…is it just a convenient phrase.
There are many convenient phrases that may sound positive, practical and kind of wise, like
“ we’re all in this together”
“ staying apart keeps us together”
“Do as I do not as I say”
But Rozie wondered ….what’s tough, at the moment…seems to be economics, mental health, general health, relationships of all varieties, communication and education.
Pretty much all areas of life seem to be under a long shadow and many see the gathering storm clouds.
If you want to be tough…thick skinned, able to fight forward despite the odds,fight for what’s right,get through the imminent disaster…if you want to get through what’s tough…
You’re going to have connection of some sort, fellow human or the higher power, something beyond yourself. Don’t think you have a hope of doing it alone….really.
Maybe for a symbolic moment…. Think shopping bag man in Tianenmin square…( does anyone know what happened to that man?….as in did he keep going? )
When the going gets tough….it’s a case of standing your ground, standing up, just standing.
“ when you have done all else stand”
Rozie wondered how she’d stand… when the going got tough….if it came to a “ shopping bag moment”she wondered if it would be possible at all….with the dodgy knee.
To keep going you’re going to need a miracle or two….help from the unseen…(think Angels.)
Makes you wonder if being tough is really going to cut it.
Wednesday 10 March 2021
I’ve got a swinging brick.....
Just a reflection on the current events....
I once had a neighbour, who reflected on some negative male behaviour ....and allegedly announced...she had a model for some “ testosterone therapy “ ....( think responding to the ....big swinging dicks....)
She declared she had “ two swinging bricks”
Makes your eyes water.....however looking for an even playing field.
Consider marching on Monday ladies....
Enough is enough!
Friday 22 September 2017
The moral compass ...
Saturday 29 November 2014
Friday 10 October 2014
Thursday 2 October 2014
Remember...
Whenever there's there's that little space
between what's happening and what's coming next...
Remember to breathe...
Breathe in love, peace, calm.
Remember that in this life, we're learning to live.
This is meant to be, that the things you need will come to you.
Let go of fear, control and negativity...
Find the balance in the present.
Remember to live in the moment...
People are more important than things...
Moments are all we ever have.
Look for good and believe that
good things are what it's all about in the end.
Also remember that it's never the end.
There's going to be so much to get on with...
We are all connected, we share now and forever
in some complicated, mysterious way.
Tuesday 30 September 2014
Building Bridges, Crossing Bridges, Burning Bridges...
Monday 29 September 2014
Going Mad...
and I'm actually thinking at this moment that it's a beautiful thing.
I'm in the clouds...(Flying home)
I'm in-between two quiet men.
One's reading "man fiction" and one's reading about emotional intelligence,
how to get the best of things.
I'm thinking about life and quietly weeping.
I'm thinking about going mad.
It's your minds way of coping with the difficulties life sends you...
It's trying to make sense of things that don't make sense.
I'm thinking about people, about family and babies and how lovely and precious they are
I'm thinking about gratefulness.
This is all happening amid the roar of the engines, the thick blanket of cloud
and the cold air from the overhead duct.
It's funny, jammed in here its a very public/private space,
and we're all literally "up in the air".
I'm thinking it's ok to be old, funny incapable, unable, disabled, dependant,
incomplete...mad.
It's ok, and somehow you're still you...
When you love someone you don't need them to be capable, you just want them to be there,
you want to remember...you want to have a lot to remember.
You don't always know that you love people so much.
It takes something to open your eyes...
Your heart's been open all along.
These are some thoughts that I penned on the flight home from visiting mum earlier in the year.
She was in hospital as a result of being in the last stages of Parkinson's and Alzheimer's.
The situation at times was surreal, and she seemed to literally be between two worlds.
Thinking of endings is sometimes frightening we want to avoid it rather than embrace it.
It all made me think...about life, death, love, loss and going mad.
In the end I thought it was ok...not easy but ok.
Saturday 20 September 2014
Big Bird...
Friday 29 August 2014
Tuesday 26 August 2014
Saying Goodbye To Mum...
She took comfort in small simple things something soft to cuddle, and a hand to hold. |
Dad read stories from their past, favourite hymns and scriptures, which brought her comfort. |
Surrounded by a wealth of family, she was carried by grandchildren to her earthly resting place. |
Where prayers were offered and encouragements given, and of course songs were sung. |