"taking a line for a walk" looking at life...it's not black and white... it's tension in the negative spaces.
Dear Reader
Any reference to any person living or dead is purely
coincidental, and not meant to cause offence , only to provoke humour, and as a vehicle to "get things off my chest"
Saturday, 29 November 2014
Friday, 10 October 2014
Thursday, 2 October 2014
Remember...
Whenever you get the chance.
Whenever there's there's that little space
between what's happening and what's coming next...
Remember to breathe...
Breathe in love, peace, calm.
Remember that in this life, we're learning to live.
This is meant to be, that the things you need will come to you.
Let go of fear, control and negativity...
Find the balance in the present.
Remember to live in the moment...
People are more important than things...
Moments are all we ever have.
Look for good and believe that
good things are what it's all about in the end.
Also remember that it's never the end.
There's going to be so much to get on with...
We are all connected, we share now and forever
in some complicated, mysterious way.
Whenever there's there's that little space
between what's happening and what's coming next...
Remember to breathe...
Breathe in love, peace, calm.
Remember that in this life, we're learning to live.
This is meant to be, that the things you need will come to you.
Let go of fear, control and negativity...
Find the balance in the present.
Remember to live in the moment...
People are more important than things...
Moments are all we ever have.
Look for good and believe that
good things are what it's all about in the end.
Also remember that it's never the end.
There's going to be so much to get on with...
We are all connected, we share now and forever
in some complicated, mysterious way.
Tuesday, 30 September 2014
Building Bridges, Crossing Bridges, Burning Bridges...
Monday, 29 September 2014
Going Mad...
I'm wondering about going mad,
and I'm actually thinking at this moment that it's a beautiful thing.
I'm in the clouds...(Flying home)
I'm in-between two quiet men.
One's reading "man fiction" and one's reading about emotional intelligence,
how to get the best of things.
I'm thinking about life and quietly weeping.
I'm thinking about going mad.
It's your minds way of coping with the difficulties life sends you...
It's trying to make sense of things that don't make sense.
I'm thinking about people, about family and babies and how lovely and precious they are
I'm thinking about gratefulness.
This is all happening amid the roar of the engines, the thick blanket of cloud
and the cold air from the overhead duct.
It's funny, jammed in here its a very public/private space,
and we're all literally "up in the air".
I'm thinking it's ok to be old, funny incapable, unable, disabled, dependant,
incomplete...mad.
It's ok, and somehow you're still you...
When you love someone you don't need them to be capable, you just want them to be there,
you want to remember...you want to have a lot to remember.
You don't always know that you love people so much.
It takes something to open your eyes...
Your heart's been open all along.
These are some thoughts that I penned on the flight home from visiting mum earlier in the year.
She was in hospital as a result of being in the last stages of Parkinson's and Alzheimer's.
The situation at times was surreal, and she seemed to literally be between two worlds.
Thinking of endings is sometimes frightening we want to avoid it rather than embrace it.
It all made me think...about life, death, love, loss and going mad.
In the end I thought it was ok...not easy but ok.
and I'm actually thinking at this moment that it's a beautiful thing.
I'm in the clouds...(Flying home)
I'm in-between two quiet men.
One's reading "man fiction" and one's reading about emotional intelligence,
how to get the best of things.
I'm thinking about life and quietly weeping.
I'm thinking about going mad.
It's your minds way of coping with the difficulties life sends you...
It's trying to make sense of things that don't make sense.
I'm thinking about people, about family and babies and how lovely and precious they are
I'm thinking about gratefulness.
This is all happening amid the roar of the engines, the thick blanket of cloud
and the cold air from the overhead duct.
It's funny, jammed in here its a very public/private space,
and we're all literally "up in the air".
I'm thinking it's ok to be old, funny incapable, unable, disabled, dependant,
incomplete...mad.
It's ok, and somehow you're still you...
When you love someone you don't need them to be capable, you just want them to be there,
you want to remember...you want to have a lot to remember.
You don't always know that you love people so much.
It takes something to open your eyes...
Your heart's been open all along.
These are some thoughts that I penned on the flight home from visiting mum earlier in the year.
She was in hospital as a result of being in the last stages of Parkinson's and Alzheimer's.
The situation at times was surreal, and she seemed to literally be between two worlds.
Thinking of endings is sometimes frightening we want to avoid it rather than embrace it.
It all made me think...about life, death, love, loss and going mad.
In the end I thought it was ok...not easy but ok.
Saturday, 20 September 2014
Big Bird...
Friday, 29 August 2014
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
Saying Goodbye To Mum...
She took comfort in small simple things something soft to cuddle, and a hand to hold. |
Dad read stories from their past, favourite hymns and scriptures, which brought her comfort. |
Surrounded by a wealth of family, she was carried by grandchildren to her earthly resting place. |
Where prayers were offered and encouragements given, and of course songs were sung. |
I decided to share this part of my life in this way and in this space
because as I experience the passing of a parent I realise that it involves plenty of
"tension in the negative spaces" .
It's been an emotional time, with both laughter and tears.
A time for connecting and re connecting with family and friends.
There have been so many things to be grateful for, thoughtfulness and kindness thats been shown in so many ways, big and small.
Thank you to everyone.
Saturday, 2 August 2014
The Elephant In The Room...
Friday, 7 March 2014
tension in the negative spaces: Lessons And Teachers...
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Monday, 24 February 2014
Saturday, 11 January 2014
Courage Is The Key...
Thursday, 9 January 2014
Things That Make Me Happy...
This is a list of things that make me feel good and give me the ''up'', I'm going to add to it every day.
1 Candles
2 Velvet cats
3 Great music
4 The idea of things progressing...getting to the next new bit.
5 Working out more ''stuff''
6 Change that's positive
7 Friends that stay connected
8 Being warm and cosy
9 Things to do with ''the heart''
10 Having choices
11 Wine of course
12 Simple beauty
13 Complex beauty
14 Authenticity
15 People to share with
16 Celebration and Events
17 Things you know you're connected to
18 When you had a dream and you see it coming true, not necessarily in the way that you
thought...but still it's exciting...it's connected to your vision and passion
19 Longing...when you can imagine how great something could be and you're happy to
know that the idea will take you a long way and give you hope when you have to
wait and have patience
20 Friends who ''get'' what you mean
21 Imagination and possibility
22 The feel of something silky
23 Sunsets
24 Dew drops on spider webs
25 Brewed Coffee in the morning
26 The smell of fresh herbs....particularly Basil
27 Having the luxury of ''waisting'' time....
in other words doing things you want to do
but that seem unimportant to others
28 Picnics
29 Fairy Lights
30 Recipe Books
31 Making Food
32 Sharing Food
33 Taking Photos Of Food
11 Wine of course
12 Simple beauty
13 Complex beauty
14 Authenticity
15 People to share with
16 Celebration and Events
17 Things you know you're connected to
18 When you had a dream and you see it coming true, not necessarily in the way that you
thought...but still it's exciting...it's connected to your vision and passion
19 Longing...when you can imagine how great something could be and you're happy to
know that the idea will take you a long way and give you hope when you have to
wait and have patience
20 Friends who ''get'' what you mean
21 Imagination and possibility
22 The feel of something silky
23 Sunsets
24 Dew drops on spider webs
25 Brewed Coffee in the morning
26 The smell of fresh herbs....particularly Basil
27 Having the luxury of ''waisting'' time....
in other words doing things you want to do
but that seem unimportant to others
28 Picnics
29 Fairy Lights
30 Recipe Books
31 Making Food
32 Sharing Food
33 Taking Photos Of Food
Tuesday, 7 January 2014
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